About Me
My name is Cate.
I am 22, and I live in Louisville, KY with my husband, preschool-aged daughter, and newborn son—not to mention our dog and three cats. Our household is always busy!
I’ve always been financially savvy, but I developed hyperemesis (excessive nausea) during my first pregnancy and I lost my job as a nanny. Suddenly, my husband and I went from being a couple who had an extra $1,000 after paying our bills every month to a couple who barely had enough money to pay those bills in the first place. Together we dove headlong into frugal living. I began cooking all of our meals from scratch, using coupons, making my own household cleaners, and wearing out my library card.
In the two and a half years since we began living frugally, we have paid off about $14,000 in medical and student loan debt, bought a house, welcomed home two babies and several pets, committed to eating local, sustainable meat, and opened our eyes to the joys of living simply. These days, we love to spend quiet weekends at home playing board games, eating home-cooked meals, reading library books, and playing with our children. We focus less on the stuff and more on the experiences.
While this blog bloomed from a desire to write about frugality and simple living, I also delve into topics relating to the environment, feminism, my identity as a rape survivor coping with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, living as a nonreligious family in America, and my life as a stay-at-home mom.
I was born in Baltimore, but after living in the south for 12 years, I add syllables where they don’t belong (i.e. “pa-ants”), and there’s always a pitcher of sweet tea in our fridge. I hope you find my blog to be just as welcoming as you’d find my home.



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Wow, honestly, what a find this blog is.
Not sure how I stumbled across your blog a week or so ago, but you’re already in my favorites to check back everyday.
We are total opposites in almost every regard, but I have loved what I’ve read!
Thank you!
I’m happy to have found your blog. I regularly follow a handful of “homemaking”/”simple-living”/”frugality” blogs, and they all are written by women from more conservative Judeo-Christian backgrounds. While I am part of this background myself as well, it is really nice to see this same type of blog from a woman of a differing philosophy. I’m happy to know there are women out there interested in domesticity other than us Christians!
Best wishes.
Thank you.
We’re definitely out there!
Hi Cate-
I found your blog from a comment you left on the Non-Consumer Advocate website. I also live in Louisville, and have recently been making a more concerned effort to save money, buy locally, grow our own vegetables, etc., and I’m really enjoying your blog! I’ve already bookmarked three of your recipes to try this week-I love anything with black beans!!
Becky
That’s awesome that you live in Louisville, too! I think you’re the first person (other than people I already know in person) from Louisville to introduce yourself on my blog. I’m glad to know you’re out there…and happy you’re enjoying my blog/recipes. Black beans are my favorite, too!
Thank you, thank you, thank you for your non-religious viewpoint.
Hi Cate! Been following you a while on Twitter and I wanted to stop by and tell you I really enjoy your blog. I too am aiming for a simpler, greener way to live. Frugality has become a necessity for me as well. My husband’s local business took a dip in sales by 60% in the same year that we decided I should be a stay-at-home mom! YIKES right?? I still have much to learn on how to cut back, but its all a learning process. I applaud you for being able to save and cut back as much as you have.
Cate,
I love your website, your non-religious viewpoint, and your frugal tips! I’ve also already used a few of your recipes! Your sweet potato enchiladas are a BIG hit!
Chrissy
Thanks Chrissy! I’m so glad you’re enjoying my blog!
Love your blog! Can’t figure out how I got here but happy to have found you. Looking forward to hearing all about Jame’s arrival in to your lovely family.